To be honest, Emily is not the Second Life Name for the woman I am describing here. For the purposes she exist, it is better to put her here under a pseudonym.
First of all, let me give a bit of background information on her: When i came to Second Life, one of my goals there was learning how to get in contact with women, as i felt i was very bad and insecure about it. Then I had the idea of creating a woman, and see how others would react
Also, like many, but not all guys I have quite a liking for two women getting it on, just as i know many women have fantasies of two guys making out together. One of the nice things of Second Life, is being able to experiment with this.
For these reasons, I created a Female Avatar. For purposes of this blog, I will call her Emily. Those of you knowing me better, will know her real name too.
Emily is rather forward, happy girl, and likes to dominate her victims. Whit her, I do let out a bit of my dark side, and, depending on how much of an ass the Man or Woman I am talking about is, mess with their heads.
To submit to my own weird sense of morality, I gave Emily a few rules:
- She is not allowed to actively attract guys or gals, though passively (like choice of clothing) she can
- She cannot claim she is a real woman, but she can say she is a woman/girl on sl
- her profile has to state she is not interested in men, only women
- She will not lie about herself, though she might choose not to answer
- Wen i know or expect that a woman I talk with or is interested in Emily, is lesbian, and has been traumatised by men, she will tell her my real gender.
With these rules in mind, Emily started off. I learned a lot about how men try to flirt with women. Actually, I learned most what NOT to do. I have been amazed about how stupid, rude and embarrassing men can be.
I found that there are men (or woman playing men) that run around naked (or half clothed) with a free out-of-proportion penis attached, going after seemingly every thing female. Their opening line is something like “Hï, nice shoes. Lets Fuck”. And then they really expect this makes you interested enough to go with them to the nearest pose-ball.
Now, when it comes to relationships, I still think I have a lot to learn, but even with my limited knowledge about the subject I figure this kind of conversation will in general not get you far at all. And if it does, you should really question this girl’s gender and age.
As I have written before, I kind of do expect people to read profiles on Second Life. I am of the opinion that if you really are interested or care about someone, that is the least you can do, provided the pages are written in English (Though I read the Dutch, French and German ones too). Like wise, i think it is also the duty of someone to them selves and to others, to write the profiles. Even if it is only to state what your own limits are. Of course I don’t think you should forced too do so, but it will bring risks like people thinking you are into tentacle sex
